Why you are hooked on your crush... and how to get over it in 10 steps. This is how to get over your crush when you are obsessed with them. You have a crush and you know you are meant to be together. You are in love with the most gorgeous, wonderful, amazing person in the world. But you just know that no matter what you do, it will never happen.
But you can't get over it and you can't move on. No matter how hard you try. You feel an intense, all consuming love for your crush. Instead of going away, it seems to be growing stronger every day. You can't let go...
1 - Fear
You fear failure and you fear the pain of rejection. You fear accepting that your feelings are not acknowledged and you fear accepting your fate. So you hang on, hoping that something, someday will change...
2 - Hope
You keep hoping that if you try harder, your crush will notice you. You hope that, with enough time, your crush will fall in love with you. Hope is good, but it can make you blind to the truth. So you stay hooked on your crush because you fear accepting the reality and you hope that, one day, your crush will love you.
How do you deal with unrequited love and get over your crush? Here are 10 tips and ways to help you get over your crush:
1 - Tell your crush how you feel, then move on.
2 - Stop stalking your crush on social media.
3 - Stop obsessing, daydreaming and constantly talking about your crush to your friends.
4 - Accept your value and focus on yourself. It's their loss. Make it your mantra.
5 - Stop making yourself miserable and start doing some fun things.
6 - Look around you. Surely there is someone who is interested in you. Make time to get to know that person better.
7 - Take your crush of their pedestal. See if you can find 5 things that prove your crush is not as awesome as you thought.
8 - Stop hoping and keep your distance. Give yourself time to get over it.
9 - Tell your friends you are trying to move on, and ask them to support you.
10 - Don't bottle it up. Cry if you need to. But then... LET IT GO!
See it as a life lesson. If it's hard getting over a crush, imagine the pain of getting over your ex. So learn from it. Don't become bitter. You are better than that. Grow stronger. You can get over it. You WILL get over it. Be strong.
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